How Blessed We Are!

Dearest Georgia,


Well, I just returned from spending my first weekend with you…and I loved it! You see, last week, you made your appearance in this world and you were welcomed by Mommy and Daddy, by your Grandma and Pop-pops and by Mimi! Your Papaw (that’s me!) was not there until you came home a few days after you were born. When I came to your house, you were sleeping (you do that a lot, since you are such a little baby!) but your Daddy went into your room and brought you to me and put you in my arms. Georgia, I already knew that I would love you, but when I looked at your perfect little mouth and nose, your dark blue eyes and your soft skin, I realized that not only did I love you, but that there was nothing that I would not do for you. I have heard people say, that a child is someone who carries your heart around with them! I believe that from the moment I held you, you owned Papaw’s heart!



I was able to spend the next three days with you, your Mommy and Daddy and with Mimi, before I had to return to work. I loved every minute of it, but I especially liked holding you in your little swaddling blanket and watching you sleep. I enjoyed singing to you to soothe you, when you cried. In fact, I sang a lullaby to you that my Papaw sang to me, when I was a baby and that your Daddy’s Papaw sang to him when he was a baby. For three generations, Papaw’s in our family have sung “A Little Brown Bear With Wings” to the babies who were born into our family. In fact, your Daddy’s cousin Jeff has written a song about that lullaby, but mostly it is about the men who have sung that song to their grandchildren! You see, Georgia, it is a very special little song, but the people like my Papaw and your Daddy’s Papaw GC were very special men who loved each one of their grandchildren very much. That is no different for you or your cousins, Mark, Luke and Caroline! I love all of you very much!



I also want you to understand that all of my grandchildren are special to me. Your cousin Mark Garrett was my first grandchild to be born and just like you, I fell in love with him the minute I saw him and his Daddy placed him in my arms. He is special because he was my first grandchild. Later, his brother Luke was born. When Luke was born, I was in a place called Africa. Your Mimi called me there to tell me that baby Luke had been born and I was very excited. A few weeks later, I returned to this country and was introduced to my newest grandson, Luke Patton! The amazing thing was that I loved him just as much as I loved his brother! Luke is very special to me because he showed me that God made Papaw’s to be able to love all of their grandchildren. He is also special to me because he liked to sleep on Papaw’s chest when he was little! Almost four years later, your cousin Caroline was born. Once again, I fell in love with a grandchild, the second I met her! Caroline was special because she was the first precious little girl that God blessed us with! Papaw loves Caroline and I am pretty sure she loves her Papaw too! So, you probably wonder if I love you the way I love your cousins. Well, the answer to that is YES!!!! You are special for several reasons. First, you are special, because God made you that way and He made you just as He wanted you…perfect! Second, you are special because your Mommy and Daddy love you. But you are special to Mimi and Papaw too! You are the first grandchild that your Daddy gave to us and that will always mean you are special! I can also tell you that when you hear your Papaw’s voice, even though you are a tiny baby, you turn your head to see me and when you do, your Papaw almost melts!



I am looking forward to so many things with you, Georgia! I am looking forward to your first crawl, your first steps, you first day of school and so many other firsts. I hope I am around to see all of those special times. But, if I am not, I want you to remember what I have told your cousins, Mark, Luke and Caroline…over and over again! You will always be able to say, “I had a Papaw who loved me more than anything!” And I do!



Love, Papaw

A Real Legacy

I have known a number of individuals who have through their lives touched my life and the lives of others.  Any of you who have read my blog know that my dad was such a man, but this post is about two men who have not only touched my life, but the lives of thousands.  They are building a legacy that will last through all eternity.

A little more than a week ago, Anita and I had the opportunity to celebrate an anniversary...not ours, but the 15th anniversary of Chad Selph being called to come to First Baptist Church of Allen, Texas.  Chad was his usual modest self, who was probably not as comfortable in the "spotlight" as he is in the pulpit where he shines the spotlight on our Lord and Savior.  In honor of Chad, the church asked another pastor to speak from the pulpit, Jack Riddlehoover.  As I celebrated this special time with Chad, the Lord impressed again on my heart how He uses His people to impact the lives of others.  You see, both Chad and Brother Jack have had an amazing impact on my life.

In 1976, Brother Jack stood in front of me and a beautiful, godly young woman and pronounced us man and wife.  Anita and I have always said that the choice of your spouse is the second most important decision you will ever make.  In my case, it was a great decision (hers...probably not so much!)  I can remember almost every word that Brother Jack told us during our counseling session with him.  He offered Biblical advice on marriage that has served us both very well.  Now, that would certainly be enough impact for anyone to make my top 5 list, but it goes on!  What I did not know was that the first full-time ministry position my good friend and former pastor, Chad, held was under Brother Jack.  I do not believe in coincidence like this!  I should have realized the same qualities that draw people to Brother Jack are also evident in Chad.  You might ask what those qualities would be.  Well, I am glad you asked!  When I look at these two men, I see:

• A dependence on their Father and a love for Him that controls their entire lives;
• A love for their families that is an example of Christ's love for the church;
• A heart for bringing people to the Gospel;
• A heart for ministering to God's people; and
• An ability and desire to see everything through an eternal perspective.

Chad and Brother Jack have impacted people throughout the world, by bringing them the message of the Gopsel.  They have mentored others who have done the same, thereby extending their own impacts to many other lives!

I have heard Chad say that at the end of his life, he wants his family to know that he loved God and loved them and that the best he can pray for them is that they do the same.  I believe that is an impact we would all do well to desire!  Anita and I love both of these men dearly and we are blessed and honored to have been two of the lives they have impacted!

Dear Miss Georgia!

Many of you who know me are acutely aware that I love all children, but I especially love my grandchildren.  I cannot tell you how much those three little ones mean to me.  I have always written letters to them, beginning even before they were born and I plan to continue as long as I am around.  However, my letter/blog writing is about to make a 33% jump.  Our son Mark and his lovely wife, Meghan are expecting their first baby, in late March.  We are all very excited and we already know that this little one will be a girl and her name will be Georgia!  As the time is approaching, I need  make sure that Miss Georgia knows how much she will be loved and how we can't wait to meet her.  I thought it might be good for Georgia to know a few things about our family.  So, the rest of this post is really for you, Georgia!

The very first people you will meet after you are born, will be your Mommy and Daddy.  You will love them for all of your life and just as important, they will love you!  Your Mommy is named Meghan and she is wonderful.  She will take care of you when you are a baby and a little girl, but she won't stop taking care of you even after you are grown up!  She will teach you so many things, like how to read and play games, how to take care of your baby dolls and how to be a little lady.  She won't be the only one who takes care of you, though.  Your Daddy will also take care of you.  I have known your Daddy his whole life.  His name is Mark and he is my little boy...only he is big now!  Your Daddy will tickle you and play games with you.  He will teach you to ride your first bicycle and he will be there to pick you up, when you fall down.  He will also put mud on your nose when he comes home from duck hunting!  I want you to always remember that your Mommy and Daddy love you more than anyone and they will always want what is best for you...even when you think they don't!  The most important thing your Mommy and Daddy will do though, is to tell you about God and His Son, Jesus.  You see, you are going to be part of a family that loves God and they will teach you about Him and how much He loves you.  He will always love you, more than you will ever be able to know!

You will also get to meet your aunt and uncle, Aunt Alicia and Uncle Tim.  Your aunt is my little girl and just like your Daddy, I have known her for her whole life.  Aunt Alicia will be coming to Texas to help your Mommy after you are born.  You will find out that like your Mommy, she loves babies and children.  She is married to your uncle, Tim.  Uncle Tim also loves babies (in fact, they both love babies so much, that they have three of their own!)  Uncle Tim will be the best "baby swaddler" you will ever have!  He is also a pretty good guy to know, because he will let you ride on his shoulders!  Along with your Aunt Alicia and Uncle Tim, you will meet three people who are so excited that you are being born, your cousins, Mark Garrett, Luke and Caroline.  You will love them and I am sure you will think they are super fun!  Mark is named after your Daddy and he is the oldest, so I am sure he will boss you a little, but he will also make sure you get a turn at whatever game you are playing.  Luke is also probably going to boss you a little, but he is a really funny little boy and he will probably even let you play with Big Monkey and Widdle Monkey!  Now you also have a cousin who is a girl, just like you!  You and Caroline will love each other and I think you will also have lots of fun with her.  I know she will let you play with her dolls and you can have tea parties and play games and have all kinds of fun together!

One of the best things that will happen when you are born is that you get to meet your Mimi!  Mark and Luke and Caroline will tell you that Mimi is the best.  First of all, she will love...no matter what!  That means that she will love just as much when you are not being nice as she does when you are behaving very well!  No matter what!  Mimi loves little girls and she has already been buying you clothes and books and toys!  But do you know what else she has been doing for you?  She has been praying that God will always watch over you and take care of you and that you will always love Him!  Mimi will take you to tea parties (real tea parties!), to the park, to the zoo and many other fun places.  She can't wait to meet you!  When you meet Mimi, remember that she loves God more than anyone else I know and she will teach you to love Him too!

Last, you will meet me, your Papaw.  You will learn very quickly, that your Papaw is a softy, especially where little girls are concerned!  I will take you to the park and to the zoo with Mimi.  I will take you to eat ice cream and snow cones...you will love them!  I will also be there just to talk and to read books to you and anything else we might think of.  I guess the best thing I can tell you is that I will be there for you...no matter what!  I can't wait to tell you the story of Christmas and Easter and how God loved you even before you were born and I want you to love Him just as much as I do.  Your love for God will be the most important relationship you ever have!

Georgia, we already love you and can hardly wait for you to arrive!  Baby girl, you are already loved more than you will ever know! 

I love you,
Papaw

Sad Anniversary!

This next Sunday, January 22nd, marks perhaps the saddest anniversary in the history of this country.  On that day, there will be a number of groups who celebrate the 39th anniversary of an activist U.S. Supreme Court decision that said that a woman's right to an abortion was a "fundamental constitutional right."  There will perhaps be impassioned speeches about the right of a woman to choose to end a pregnancy.  There will be any number of media news stories about how far women have come as a result of this "landmark decision."  However, let us stop the obfuscation and really be clear about the anniversary we "celebrate!"

On January 22nd, what we will actually be celebrating is the sacrifice of more than 50 million unborn babies on the altar of self and convenience!  The number catches in my throat and tears come to my eyes every single time I speak of it.  As the father of two wonderful children and the father-in-law of two more, equally precious young people and the grandfather to three, soon to be four precious grandchildren, I cannot imagine what life would be like without a single one of these eight souls. 

So, this week, I will not be praying for God to strike all abortionists with some terrible plague.  I will be praying that we will turn from our wicked ways and that God will hear our prayers and heal our land.  In the end, it is not a pro-choice or pro-life decision...it is a decision to rebel against God or not, and that is the only choice!